Believe in…

Do you believe in fate/destiny?

I am not sure i understand the meaning of that fraze. What does fate/destiny do? For me? I have heard about things like ” it was destiny..” or “if it wasn’t for fate” but I never quite got the meaning.  Fate/destiny is something you experience thru life and stacks the course for what you end up like as an old man, i think! Like it’s the summary of your life doings in a way! I don’t know i migth be totally screwed on this one! Fate/destiny sounds like something in the end. Like a summary! Can i use it? No, it only tells you a result and if it’s good or bad they say “it was destiny…or fate…that did it”. Fate/destiny is not in our vocabulary. We don’t have storys where fate/destiny played a major role. So we don’t talk about it that much. Or we don’t excuse anything due to fate/destiny. We are more honest with ourselves and takes the qonsequenses for what happens instead of blaming fate/destiny. Taking accountabilty for actions is more like a man would do but a woman would blame fate/destiny. This is just a philosophical thougth i have and I can be totally wrong here, but I can also be rigth!